Communication tips we advise you to adhere to when using the ShiaSpouse website.
We have worked extremely hard to make the website as safe as possible, but in the end you must take the necessary precautions to safeguard yourself. To assist you ShiaSpouse has set out some communication tips which we strongly advise you to read and act upon.
  • Etiquettes of correspondence
  • Guard your identity
  • Hijab
  • Stop and think
Etiquettes of correspondence
  • Be honest, do not hide your negative side, we all have one, show that you are a balanced individual as no one is perfect…

  • Try to keep online behaviors in correlation with your behaviors offline. Do not try to act different or more outgoing and chatty than you usually are, as this will not depict a true picture of yourself

  • Show a respectful behavior, do not use offensive words. If you are shown disrespect report this on abuse@shiaspouse.com
Guard your identity
  • Keep your personal contact details safe, until you feel that you are ready to move on to the next stage. Do not feel pressured to disclose this information before you are ready.
Hijab
  • Do not lose focus of your intention of marriage

  • Keep conversations clean and to the point

  • Assess the way that you are communicating; is it halal?

  • Decide how long you want to give each other to decide whether you are compatible for marriage
Stop and think
  • If you have doubts take your time to stop and think.
  • Follow your instincts but find a valid reason for your decision making.
  • Use common sense, be realistic.
  • Do assess what you are feeling and why.
  • Take time to share your thoughts with your family and use their objective views to assess the situation.
  • Make a list of the questions that you want answers to in regards to the other persons intentions and their character.
Etiquettes of correspondence
  • Be honest, do not hide your negative side, we all have one, show that you are a balanced individual as no one is perfect…


  • Try to keep online behaviors in correlation with your behaviors offline. Do not try to act different or more outgoing and chatty than you usually are, as this will not depict a true picture of yourself

  • Show a respectful behavior, do not use offensive words. If you are shown disrespect report this on abuse@shiaspouse.com